A very simple but easily overlooked hint is not to have any indexes and/or constraints (primary key) on your load tables during the load process. This will significantly slow down load times even with ROWS= set to a high value.
Add the FOLLOWING option in the command line: DIRECT=TRUE. This will effectively bypass most of the RDBMS processing. However, there are cases when you can't use direct load. For details, refer to the FAQ about the differences between the conventional and direct path LOADER below.
Turn off DATABASELOGGING by specifying the UNRECOVERABLE option. This option can only be used with direct data loads.